Can hiding infidelity ever be virtuous?

2021.10.22 04:09 Unlikely-Mirror-4036 Can hiding infidelity ever be virtuous?

I want to preface this by saying that I do not dispute that what happened was wrong and distinctly un-virtuous, and noting that I do feel awful about it. I’m more seeking advice on how a Stoic might navigate this situation in the most virtuous way and cause the least harm.
Some backstory: I used to work with two girls, we’ll call them Alice and Beth. I met Alice when I first started the job, and we quickly became close friends despite a 10 year age gap. I didn’t meet Beth until I was 5 months into the job but we also quickly became close, and started texting almost every day. About two weeks after I’d first met Beth we all went for drinks with our office. Beth and I sat with each other and started getting a little handsy under the table, but we stopped because we were with colleagues. I was at this point still unsure if she actually liked me or if it was just a drunken thing. When the night ended I offered to walk Alice home, and when we got to hers she invited me in, and then subsequently invited me into bed.
We didn’t sleep together, or even kiss, but we did get a bit handsy before agreeing to stop because she didn’t want to ruin her reputation (she had previously been publicly burned by a coworker)/do anything we’d regret. We instead spent the night talking about that coworker, and Beth, because Alice knew Beth and I had been texting. She did ask me what was going on there and I said I wasn’t sure. In the morning we agreed to never discuss the night or bring it up again, and we remained close friends. She also actively encouraged me to pursue Beth, and told Beth to pursue me. On a later night out Beth confessed that she did like me and we kissed.
Fast forward 2 months and I’ve started a new job, and still regularly speak to Beth and Alice, and they have become close friends with each other. Beth has no clue what happened with Alice, and Alice has never brought it up either. I’m supposed to go on my first real date with Beth next week too.
The problem is that even thought feel awful about what happened and recognise that Beth has a right to know, I’m not sure telling her is actually the kindest or most virtuous thing to do. I feel like it would just be displacing my guilt onto another person, which is bad enough as it is, but given that Beth has recently opened up and told me she’s struggled with her mental health in the past it could be actively dangerous. I do question whether her hearing from someone else would be worse though. Telling her would also involve betraying Alice’s trust, and Alice has been having a rough time after getting burned by that coworker anyway. Similarly, Beth and I weren’t even together at the time, and Alice and I didn’t actually sleep together. Would it not just cause unnecessary suffering? I’m really struggling with how to cause the least harm here and could do with some stoic advice, though I recognise I probably don’t deserve it.
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